People always talk about childbirth as this horrendous,
awful thing. And maybe I really am suffering from that wonderful birth amnesia,
but I would posit that there is something far worse than childbirth: Teething.
Obviously, I’m not experiencing physical pain. But dealing
with a baby who is absolutely miserable, and you are helpless to aid, is a test
of sanity and drive like no other. Particularly when the misery involves fever
and an inability to sleep. Let’s just say I’m not all sweetness and roses and
patience after 2 days of not sleeping. ;) In some sense, perhaps teething is
helping Evan on his journey to sainthood?
It was a rough weekend, the kind where you look at each
other and say “WE want kids, we WANT kids, we want KIDS!” Or at least some
similar high school cheer to lift your spirits. Going back and forth between
complete frustration and giggle fits from lack of sleep is a special kind of
bonding experience. We were both amazed at how much closer we felt after 3 days
of consistently canceled plans, no sleep, and many failed attempts to try
something other than hang out in our living room. Hanging out in the Urgent
care for 2 hours consoling a baby with a rather uncomfortable apparatus attached
wasn’t exactly the change of pace we’d been hoping for. We both felt a newfound
sense of camaraderie after the battle, though.
There was one canceled plan that had an unintended good
side, however. I was supposed to sing with the choir at the 5:30pm mass, but
since we still had mystery fever at that point, we decided we needed to split
up and keep the baby at home. Evan went to 5:30 in my place because she decided
not to nap and just wanted mommy, and thankfully, she went to bed by 8:45 and I
was able to slip out to the 9pm candlelight mass.
Upon entering the church, I was immediately taken back to so
many wonderful high school and college experiences of late night worship.
Perhaps it was the exhaustion of my weekend, but 9pm mass felt like a 6am mass
after an all night lock-in. The dark church, lit by a combination of dimmed
lights and candles, was breathtaking. I picked a seat close to the front, which
I haven’t done in a long time, and immersed myself into the blissful silence.
My unintended candlelit date with my Lord and Savior was exactly what I didn’t
realized I needed, more than anything.
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